Sex and money, when the topic should be discussed with your partner? How to start and find a solution? Questions can be hung in your mind with a number of concerns that may be encountered during the discussion.
Once properly get through this, you will make many changes. Conversely, one wrong step and you are involved in endless arguments, then the problem will always be a sensitive topic.
1. Do not ever interrupt the speech when the couple convey the idea or argument.
2. Do not dominate the conversation. Give each a proportionate time for talk.
3. When couples talk, repeat what he said (in shorter form). So, he knows that you've listened to his words.
4. Do not play-mutarkan eyes, because it indicates the body language you do not notice what is being said mate. And more bad, you lower your idea or argument. Also avoid other negative body language.
5. Remember and really think about what would and you have to say during the discussion, rather than react defensively. One-one, couples can be misunderstood.
6. Start your words with "I" and not "You" to avoid "point the finger syndrome". For example, "I was really disappointed when I feel has been ignored". The sentence sounds better than, "You really make me mad if you do not listen to my words." Talk Sex & Money Without Arguments.
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